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Cindy
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Wedding bringing up emotions?

Cindy, on September 22, 2021 at 6:15 PM

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Has the wedding brought up any emotions ? I’m over the planning . I’m over covid and vaccinations and family drama . I’m 6 months away and I just want to elope . Am I the only one struggling ? I’ve talked to my fiancé and he wants to go through with it .
Has the wedding brought up any emotions ?


I’m over the planning . I’m over covid and vaccinations and family drama . I’m 6 months away and I just want to elope . Am I the only one struggling ? I’ve talked to my fiancé and he wants to go through with it .

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  • Cindy
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    Omg that’s crazy about the courthouse . I’ve heard from brides who wish they eloped are glad they didn’t . We deserve to celebrate our love
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  • Cindy
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    Thank you Vicky ! I hope your wedding is everything you wished of and more . Happy marriage
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  • Vicky
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    Thank you so much. Same to you🤗❤
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  • Cindy
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    I’m so sorry to hear about that . When’s you wedding date ?
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  • Cindy
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    I’m glad your still having your wedding ! My fiancé and I talked last night and I was just overwhelmed with emotion . The wedding Is still on !
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  • Cindy
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    I feel your pain . We thought about eloping or cancelling . It’s brought me so much stress and no one helps out financially or even planning . But we are going through have the wedding
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  • Cindy
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    Thank you Kristen ! Your almost there !
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  • Milada
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    I said that same thing - we do deserve to celebrate our love minus all the drama and mess.

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  • D
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    Cindy I'm so sorry. Hang in there.

    I had another breakdown yesterday. Band is being wishy washy if we have it covered or not, they keep making different demands (they are the band I'm in and like dysfunctional family). Actually this time it's sounding good to go but we already were contacting other groups and I'm just so aaaack. Then our photographer just bailed. It took us 4 months to find someone who fit our budget. I am so doubtful we can find anyone who will do it for that, so, no pictures I guess?

    I really want to postpone but fiance is trying to talk me out of it. Starting therapy again next week. I feel like I'm going through the worst grieving period of my life. I guess we are still on tho.

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  • Cindy
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    Omg I’m sorry to hear about this all. Do some research on Instagram you might find a good photographer there . In my area (Orlando) for weddings they charge anywhere from 4k to 6k I found the best mother and daughter duo on Instagram for 2500 for the full day . I heard pictures are important . Also very happy for you to go to therapy . It’s a crazy season with lots of variables and planning and no time for yourself . I see a therapist , no shame here . I hope everything works out . Don’t let things rain on your celebration . My fiancé reminded me this is for us no matter who doesn’t come etc and so I’m excited for this . Happy planning
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  • CountryBride
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    Been there I took a month off of planning and now I am back at it maybe if you can afford to take a week off of planning

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  • Cindy
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    Same !!! Good luck
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  • D
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    We are lucky we found a new person to work close to our budget (originally $450 for photos, we bumped it up a little). $2500 is half our budget lol. $4-6k though is definitely high for your area, we live in NJ and it's not that expensive there. I have a friend who got married in Orlando for like $7-8k all in couple years ago

    Anyway we are back on for wedding! We are both going camping this weekend individually to get away from everything

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  • Cindy
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    Enjoy your trip ! I’m trying to get school out of the way to tackle the rest of the planning
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  • A.B.
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    Yes. If I could murder Covid I would. FH wanted to elope so now I feel intense guilt over not doing it because we really should have.

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  • Cindy
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    I’m sorry . I hope things get better .
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