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Brianne
Beginner October 2020

Wedding bands and rings and anxiety?

Brianne, on March 13, 2020 at 10:24 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 4
Hey everyone. Nervous anxiety ball Brianne again. So the man just suggested going to look at rings. I purchased his band a few weeks ago. It’s gorgeous for a guys ring and masculine all that jazz. So proud I found it.
It’s not that I haven’t looked at rings. I just don’t like any of them save one antique Art Deco I found but it was bought before I could pull the trigger on it.
We didn’t do a proposal or anything so no engagement ring. We just discussed marriage and that was it. I plan on being cheesy and getting on my knee to him when I get his band in because I’m a goof ball and cheesy like that. But like, I’m having real anxiety over finding a ring or a band or... I don’t even know. Am I supposed to just get a band, does it matter, does it not, am I alone in this? An updated discussion on this would be cool. I don’t want to go look at rings and get emotional because I’m trying to be cool about not getting a few things in this line of events but... I’m an emotional person. Frozen 2 makes me cry through most of that movie. Seriously. I don’t want to start sobbing while looking at rings or something stupid.

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Latest activity by Kelsi, on March 15, 2020 at 12:54 AM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    So what about buying a band makes you nervous? Are you nervous about not finding one you’ll love enough forever?
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  • Brianne
    Beginner October 2020
    Brianne ·
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    Maybe that’s what it is. I’m just really worked up about having to look at anything for me. I’m sorry, I’ve been really bad at trying to convey my thoughts and feelings on anything on here. I should really stop posting anything.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Would you ever consider making a custom ring
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  • Kelsi
    Expert June 2020
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    It’s really hard to pick rings! I changed my ideas on rings so often I was afraid I’d hate what my FH picked out. Luckily he took a look at all my inspiration I sent him and found a ring that basically had a little of all I looked at. Would your FH consider doing that for you? I knew I wanted mine to be chosen for me because 1) he truly knows what I like 2) it meant more to me


    If it’s too overwhelming for you right now, I recommend picking a plain band for the time being. You’ll find the perfect ring when you’re not looking/overthinking/STRESSED
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