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Mrs.bubs525
Expert July 2015

Wedding band rules?

Mrs.bubs525, on February 28, 2015 at 3:11 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 29

FH and I bought our wedding bands a week or two ago. My band is a wrap. We showed them to FBIL and he told us that wraps as a band should only be worn for the first 5-10 years of marriage. After that, you are suppose to get an actual band. As anyone ever heard of something like this?! Are there...

FH and I bought our wedding bands a week or two ago. My band is a wrap. We showed them to FBIL and he told us that wraps as a band should only be worn for the first 5-10 years of marriage. After that, you are suppose to get an actual band. As anyone ever heard of something like this?! Are there wedding band rules I was unaware of? I was planning on keeping it for life...lol. These are my rings.


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  • Megan
    VIP September 2022
    Megan ·
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    It sounds to me like jewelers trying to create trends that will make them more money down the line.

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  • Future Mrs. Y
    Super August 2015
    Future Mrs. Y ·
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    I have never heard of any rules. (Nor would I oblige by them if I had. My ring is my ring and I am going to wear it however long I please.

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  • Nancy Taussig
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    Maybe his wife used that story to get a new ring?

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  • rynney1979
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    rynney1979 ·
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    This sounds completely made up. Wear your rings however you want!

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  • jenna_
    Master March 2015
    jenna_ ·
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    Lol. that must be the old fashioned rule. i wouldn't say that applies anymore... unless you're old fashioned. now people just get what they want.

    i wouldn't worry about it. get what you want.

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  • Della
    VIP July 2015
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    I'm wondering if it's what Nancy mentioned. Did his wife have a wrap and decided she wanted an upgrade?

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  • Elle
    Master March 2015
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    Never heard of this. I would have never thought there were ring "rules" its your ring! Do what you want! If you want to upgrade next year, or 50 years from now, or just stay with the ring you got married with till the day you die, I think its one of those "have it your way" kind of deals!

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  • Mrs.bubs525
    Expert July 2015
    Mrs.bubs525 ·
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    No his wife didn't want to upgrade. She originally wanted a wrap when they got married (over ten years ago) but changed her mind and got a band once she heard about this "rule". Maybe it's just outdated.

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  • Jess
    Master May 2015
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    That is dumb... I don't think there are any "rules" about rings. Your rings are very pretty and there's no reason you can't wear them forever if you want to.

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