We are being harassed by our dj please help!

This is the dj that is harassing us.

Block him and don't respond to the messages.

Based on his immature (and grammatically nightmarish!) response, I think most people would run in the opposite direction. I have a feeling he damaged his own reputation more than you ever could LOL

I’m assuming I won’t get an honest answer, but is there any truth to what he responded with? It does sound like a nightmare of a client in this situation. You also rated him 1.8 and then edited your original comment so we can not see what you originally posted that likely instigated this exchange. I’d block him and let it go at this point. Continuing in back-and-forth is only unnecessary stress, no matter who’s “right”

View Quoted Comment Do you know how I can do this? I’m trying to find where I can block him but I don’t see it in wedding wire. I have blocked him everywhere else.

View Quoted Comment Hey cece, I really appreciate you saying this. I know we shouldn’t but it’s hard to be okay when you feel like you look bad or your reputation is bad. He said a lot of things that seem like they would be an interesting lifetime movie but there are some things that were not the whole story and were also very embellished. It’s very scary that this can happen.

View Quoted Comment Hey cool, thank you for your advice. Yeah we had written some specific feedback to him via email. He never responded or offered any solution. When my husband wrote something online, it was still pretty good! we had the things that went wrong but he balanced it with “everyone still had fun regardless” kind of comments. The only thing we said was that he should have mentioned that he doesn’t MC (even though he has it on his website that he is a bilingual MC) because that led us on..We deleted the comment when he started sending threats to my husband and asking us to take it off so we replaced it with what you see. But ideally yes, we started with another venue and due to COVID, they asked us for another deposit so we moved to a different resort. He was well aware, we even told him if it seemed like a lot we could find someone else, the only time we talked about budget was when we told him to cross out some things he wanted to bring because we were reassessing budget. As far as the music etc, we sent him playlists, bridal party names 3 weeks before through his email that he later disclosed to us that the email “doesn’t work”. My wedding coordinator even rehearsed with him to make sure he was good to go- I understand multicultural weddings can be hectic but my wedding coordinator consistently tried to help and even provided him an assistant- not sure why his message reached to the toxic point that it did but I guess it is what it is. All we can do is move forward

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Doesn't look like you can block a vendor - maybe contact wedding wire and see what they can do - the vendor pays to be on the website so its a tough spot

Hey there, I'm really sorry to hear about this. What we can do is forward this information along to our Review Policy team who can look into the situation, help make any edits you want to make to your review, and can contact the vendor if it comes to that. I'm going to re-lock this discussion since it's a review and has personal information and I'll reach out to you via DM, but if you want to get things started you can email reviewinquiry@theknot.com