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claudia
Dedicated August 2009

Walking down the aisle

claudia, on July 17, 2009 at 9:48 PM Posted in Planning 0 7

I'm wondering if the groomsmen and bridesmaids are supposed to walk down the aisle together or separate, or if it really matters. The guys want to walk down to a certain song that I know the girls wouldn't like. Ok fine, it's the Imperial March from

Star Wars. Lol. Anywho, if they went separate, I could have the girls pick out something they would like, and then I could come out to something I like. Will this look weird with everyone coming down the aisle alone? Thanks in advance.

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Latest activity by Mrs. BG, on March 2, 2015 at 11:23 AM
  • Lacy
    Master October 2017
    Lacy ·
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    At 2 weddings I've been to, the groomsmen are were waiting at the front when the wedding officially begins and then the BMs walk down alone. After the ceremony was when the BMs and groomsmens walked together. At 2 others (1 of which was my best friend) the groomsmen escorted us (the bridesmaids) down the aisle. I think it all depends on what you want. I've seen it both ways and it never crossed my mind to wonder about why it wasn't done a certain way.

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  • Lisa *
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    Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! If you are getting married in a church, they may have a certain way they like things. Otherwise, you should be able to arrange your processional however you would like. You have several options. You may have the officiant and groomsmen be in place before the music begins for the bridesmaids. You may have the music begin as the officiant and groomsmen walk in. Or, you may have the groomsmen escort the bridesmaids. You may also choose to have the same piece for everyone, or have more than one selection. Just something to think about... If you have a song for the groomsmen only, your processional may end up a bit choppy. It usually only takes a couple of seconds for the men to enter. Of course if you are looking to make a statement - by all means - use the Star Wars theme. Good luck!

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  • Carleen Burns
    Carleen Burns ·
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    This is always the couples choice for my ceremonies; not mine. There is no "proper etiquette" on this.

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  • cnmnfe44
    Expert January 2010
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    I am having the groomsmen walk the moms and grandmas to their seats in the front row and the girls walk down alone then they walk out together I think its personal preference we want our wedding to be unique and our own like u so they will walk down to diff songs

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  • Christina Truelove
    Christina Truelove ·
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    I think that would make your wedding fun and interesting. I have seen weddings where they come together and seperate, so the 'look' wouldn't be wierd.

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    Devoted November 2009
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    I've always seen it down where either the groomsmen are already up front or they escort the bridesmaids in. I'm going w/the later. When the groomsmen were already up there, they didn't walk down the aisle, they generally entered from a side door but it can be anything you like! my FMIL is INTENSE on her idea of tradition so I'm picking and choosing my battles there, lol. I think having the boys walk out to that would be FUN and DIFFERENT! the only thing is, you don't want to make the procession too long- are you sure your girls wouldn't get into it? I think that be fun.

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  • claudia
    Dedicated August 2009
    claudia ·
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    Hmm, maybe they wouldn't mind...the song the guys like is 3 minutes long, so that would work. If not, we could start playing it just as they are done seating the moms...at our rehearsal we will have to figure it out. Thanks everyone!

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