vows (poll): which style did you choose?

We're doing number 2 & 3! Neither one of us were eager to write our own vows and speak them in front of everyone we know, so instead we'll be writing each other cards to read just before the ceremony.

2. Repeat after the officiant

we picked our own vows (the same for both) and ring exchange. but wanted to repeat it after him.

We are going to write our own and speak them to each other.