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Jamie
Super October 2017

Venue won't let us do a tasting

Jamie, on April 21, 2017 at 8:21 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 30

We picked an all inclusive venue to make things easier. During our initial consultation I asked about doing a tasting, and our coordinator said they do restaurant nights and gave me an approximate date of the next on, saying she would verify and get back to us. Now they are saying they are too busy,...

We picked an all inclusive venue to make things easier. During our initial consultation I asked about doing a tasting, and our coordinator said they do restaurant nights and gave me an approximate date of the next on, saying she would verify and get back to us. Now they are saying they are too busy, but we can go to the farmers market they go to to try samples instead. We live two hours away and would have to take off work to go to a farmer's market to try the food we are paying thousands of dollars for?! This seems ridiculous to me. I'm incredibly frustrated. I really want to call them and tell them this is unacceptable, but I don't think it would actually get any thing accomplished.

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  • Dawn&Mike
    Super September 2017
    Dawn&Mike ·
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    Mine didn't offer a tasting either but I have eaten at the adjoining restaurant many times and everything has always been very good so I wasn't concerned

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  • Laura
    Expert April 2017
    Laura ·
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    This happens to brides all the time and the venue usually caves in and does a tasting for you two if anything.

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  • Jennifer
    Devoted July 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    You should food taste. I went to food tasting the chicken i selected was not good we end up selecting another entree which had our mouth watering it was very tastey. we know our guest will love our selection.

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  • Red2018
    VIP August 2018
    Red2018 ·
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    Our venue does a tasting once a year and you have to pay for it - so stupid - but it's in January/February so we missed it this year. We might go next year but a friend from HS is getting married there this September and my cousin is in it - so I told her to tell me how the food is. The reviews are great, but it sucks not to taste it yourself

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  • Nicole
    VIP November 2017
    Nicole ·
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    Could you ask about maybe sampling during another event the venue is having? Maybe they can cook an extra meal and you can stop by just to taste?

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    I don't honestly think it's a deal breaker....if the reviews and reputation are great, I wouldn't worry about it honestly. But as others have said, not every venue is going do tastings before you book. Several of ours do showcases with food and all their preferred vendors, but not all of them do.

    If it's not in your contract, you may be out of luck.

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
    GymRat ·
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    Do you go into a restaurant and tell them you want to sample their filet mignon first before you commit to making a dinner reservation and paying for your meal there in the near future? Of course not.

    Imagine if a venue has 12-plus couples coming in every day interested in booking with them, but they want to try the food first. That's a lot of food and labor: who is paying for that? That's money (and food) down the drain for the venue considering those 12-plus couples may not even book with them! Cheese ain't cheap, honey.

    Another big reason why some venues do not offer a food tasting is because their kitchen is not always open. For instance, my venue is semi-inclusive (food/bev, linens, tables, chairs, etc.) - they do not operate like a restaurant for 15-plus hours a day. They also do not have events 7 days a week. We could only do a tasting when their kitchen was open - on days/nights where they had an event, where their kitchen would be open and preparing for that day's events. Like I stated in my earlier comment, we didn't have our tasting until last month for our May wedding - we booked them February of last year.

    You (not talking to you OP, just in general) might get lucky with a restaurant - one that operates all day. They are constantly preparing food, but again, why should that be free? You may not book with them - that's a waste of money.

    OP: they gave you an option to try the food. Either go to the farmer's market, or don't go, but I think you may be hard-pressed to find a venue that's going to waste food (and labor) on you when you may not book with them.

    Everyone else, find out when your venue is having a bridal showcase - that may be your best bet in being able to try the food before you buy.

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  • Courtney
    Expert September 2017
    Courtney ·
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    My venue doesn't offer tasting either but luckily we've been to a few holiday parties for my FH's former employer so we know how their food is

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  • Jay Farrell
    Jay Farrell ·
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    If you don't read the terms...you could be turned into a humancentipod.

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  • Ang
    Expert May 2018
    Ang ·
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    The venue I'm seriously considering doesn't offer tastings either. I was a little annoyed, but I've heard great things about their food. They also have a bakery/pasta shop attached to the venue and the coordinator said we could get something from there and try it at home... otherwise they only have tastings once a year at a bridal expo they hold there. Annoying. I feel your pain, but I'm choosing to trust the things I've heard from friends and the reviews.

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