Vendors that don’t respond

If you really want her, I would just give it time. I'm sure it's very possible she has a lot of weddings going on and with your date being so far out, it's probably not her first priority at the moment. That being said, you definitely don't want an unreliable vendor, so if she gives you the vibe that she doesn't care enough about your business, then definitely write her off. If it were me, I would just be patient given your wedding is just under two years away.

Ah, yes, I ran into this too with florists. I think she definitely thinks you have a lot of time and don't need anything right away. One florist told me she could not quote me until about 6 months from the wedding because the prices of flowers was always changing. I know not all vendors are like that, but florist was my biggest problem, too!

What i've learned is that a lot of vendors schedule you and then don't really want to communicate until it's either time to put money down or when it's getting closer to the date. So I wouldn't write off the florist just because they took awhile to get a quote to you. I think you can send a friendly reminder and just see what they say.

If you truly feel uncomfortable with this then check out other vendors.

It's unfortunate that she's not more responsive, but keep in mind that this means that she's focusing on the couples whose weddings are coming up sooner than later. That means that she'll give you that same treatment when your day is approaching. She should be better about giving you updates and letting you know about the delay, but it sounds like she does have her priorities in order. I wouldn't be concerned about her not being responsive later on.

I'm also getting married in 2021 and most florists wait until a year out because prices change from year to year.