*updated*Instead of a bachelorette party gonna have a pity party.

Oh my... I'm seriously bummed right now. I originally opted to not have a bridal shower. Mainly because everyone in my wedding and family struggle financially and we are a little tight right now because of the wedding. My girls told me to plan the bachelorette party I wanted and it would happen... I did... it's not... I wanted to go to a nice lunch, take a boat tour of the city, and do a few other things. No one but me wanted to do that. So I said that we could have a small party at one of their homes and now that idea is quickly going south. I don't drink however if they want to they can. I definately don't want a 'dirty' party or stripper. I'm marrying a Pastor and my beliefs are very strong. Now nothing is happening... It's sad to me. I want to be able to have an enjoyable night and have fun... ect ect.... not happening... end of my rant... I think I need some cake.