Update: Is it rude to ask if I'm invited to a wedding

Oh and babe told me he "accidentally" left out the wifes and fiance. I guess so that I wouldn't go on a rant about how rude it is. I see with my own eyes this couple is really being cheap and he is an a-hole for thinking separating wives from husbands is a great way to celebrate his wedding. Like REALLY WTF are yall planning to do for that weekend? sorry i needed to rant

You will find that this is wrong, wrong, wrong. You never ever separate couples, dating, engaged or married. This is so rude to invite one and the spouse or SO. I can see your frustration. It sounds to be like this couple needs to cut back on something or accommodate all the plus ones.

Wow and to say "thought you'd want time away from your wives" is a total excuse. If they couldn't invite spouses and fiancés they should have lowered their guest list. I would have been very offended.

Wow...speechless. You're getting married and you want your male friends to get away from their wife for the weekend...at your WEDDING? Lmfao, I'm not sure he's ready to enter that marriage with that mentality.

It may be petty but I think this is a situation where I would cross out the one and add in both names on the rsvp.

Wow. Very, VERY rude. If you can't give proper invites to couples, cut back on something else.

I was thinking the same thing FutureMrsRiley. I think it's a cop out, though. This is rude asf

Yeah, I'd never attend such a wedding. I'd probably RSVP yes and then no-show, frankly, because I would bet they also have a B-list (and likely, even the B list doesn't include anyone's significant other).

It wouldn't surprise me if the B-list you last minute when others decline.

Ah! Total A-hole....I'm sorry this is totally disrespectful to you and a slap on your back. I hope your husband took this into offense as well and question this to his friend without you having to express your emotions. It's obvious this guy just isn't ready for marriage. I'm sure his FW had a say as well or so I hope !

@OG Alecia I wasn't suppose to find these messages. But unfortunately I did while browsing the ipad for movies lol. As soon as church is out he will feel my wrath. I was thinking well no I wont go since we will be driving 14hr back from our celebration wedding home then another 3hr to their wedding. But since its adults reception I was going to drive back home with my son. But now i think this wedding trip to see them will be cancelled for all of us.

You guys I am in disbelieve. I see why he didn't tell me exactly what his friend said because I am livid on this Easter Morning!

Your FH needs to decline. He needs to support you and let the couple know that what they did was wrong.

This is messed up...

He should decline out of respect for you.

I agree, he needs to decline and tell his friend he is declining because you aren't invited.

When are people going to realize a spouse is NOT a plus one???? A plus one is for a truly single guest! Spouses and fiances and bf/gf get invited as part of a unit!!! OP I wouldn't attend regardless of an answer you get and I hope your FH backs out too!

Wow that is ridiculous. They invited 200 people with no spouses wtf

That is horrendously rude. I can't believe they're splitting people up from their spouses to come celebrate his wedding. I'd decline so fast!

The guests should go together and purchase this tacky couple an etiquette book.