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This may be hard now but one day, maybe not soon, you will realize this is for the best. Take time to heal and mourn. You will emerge stronger and better I promise

I am so amazed at how very few people take the time to read comments before posting insensitive comments.

@OP I am sorry you're going through this. It's probably an out of sight out of mind thing for you and that is totally fine. I wish you nothing but the best. Big big hugs!!

OK, I remember you. I seriously envy your strength. I know that might not mean much right now, but i dont know that i could have gone through with what you did. You will move on and have a space all on your own. I honestly after hearing the situation, dont think he will ever kick them out. You deserve better.

If you need support, we're here.

I see you do have a counselor, that's great! So glad you are making good decisions and working towards healing. You are stronger then you think!!! Don't be ashamed or embarrassed for being emotionally, it's totally okay to express your emotions. My heart is hurting for you

Thank you everyone. I have really enjoyed being a part of this community. It is just stressful to open my phone and see the app. I want to be as happy as everyone else. It is definitely almost as hard as sending my child to college and he calls daily crying and apologizing. So ya it is rough. Thank you guys so very much.

Can you block his phone #? That isnt going to help you move on.

Also, dont deactivate. Just delete the app. I'd love to hear updates on your progress, we're pulling for you.

I don't necessarily want to block him yet. When I moved out we both agreed on counseling and trying to work through this. But as the days go on, and I am alone, my mind is more clear on the situation and I don't want to be a part of that. He is a good person he just won't stand up for his self and I can't and won't live that way.

If I remember your situation correctly you need to cut, no sever ties. Block his number and his family members. As OGK said deactivate the app but keep it around if you need support or just to chat

I am so sorry. Just remember you did what was best for you. That's the important part. I'm sure it was extremely hard for you & will prob take awhile to move on. You'll get through it & be a stronger person because of it. Do whatever it is you need to do. Sorry you need to leave. Sending thoughts, hugs & well wishes to you.

Remember of you need any support, we are always here.

OP I am so sorry that you are going through this. Continue your counseling and self-care. All the best on your journey going forward. xoxo

@Jessica-You are a real gem.

Sorry that you're going through this. Hugs and best wishes to you.

@OP- my family too is very toxic and my FH is in a similar position as you. I have chose counseling to learn how to handle my family and separate myself from them. Through this painful process I have learned how to set boundaries and am learning what I need for myself to be happy. If he has agreed to counseling that is the best thing and means there is hope. My suggestion is that he attends counseling on his own as well as couples therapy. Best wishes and many prayers for you and him on your roads to recovery!!

I'm so sorry!! It's just going to take time. You needed to put yourself first and it sounds like you did. Surround yourself with people who love you.

@ogk I don't think he ever will either. His sister was moving stuff in as we were loading my truck. I told him that was the problem right there and he said "she is my sister what am I suppose to do" I said nothing you're right. She proceeded to tell me I was selfish and controlling and all that fun stuff and I just smiled loaded the truck and left. I still have to go back and get furniture but at this point I'd rather buy new and forget the rest.

Best of luck to you. Do what is best for you. If you want to completely detox from WeddingWire I totally understand. Again, do what is best for Y O U. Sending you so much love and light.

@T I am so sorry. Take some time to grieve and heal. One day everything will work out and be better than you could imagine.

T- Good Luck, please keep us updated. IF he let her talk to yuo like that, you are right its a tocix situation.

@T, I remember your earlier post, and I am so sorry things turned out the way they did, but you are doing the best thing you can do for YOU. Take care of yourself and please continue the therapy! Be strong, and know that one day you will look back and know that this was the absolute best thing you could do for both of you, and your futures, whether that ends up being together or apart.

I understand needing to delete the app off your phone, but you maybe you can keep the account so if you feel the urge to check in and talk or post updates you can still do that. I am sending you internet hugs and well wishes!!

Thank you everyone, it really means a lot. I have an appointment tomorrow, with my counselor. He suggested I bring FH with me, so that he can see how hard this is in me, in an unbiased environment. I am just not sure I am ready to see him let alone talk to him. I moved out Saturday, so I haven't even had a full week to process all this.

@T, I missed your original post, but it certainly sounds like you did what was right and healthy for you in this situation. I am so very sorry that you are going through this, but I am certain that you will make it out stronger on the other side. This community is is still here for you if you choose to stick around.

Wishing for nothing but the best for you.