My rehearsal dinner dress has a lace back. The sales lady told me I could wear it braless (which, as a 34dd, I haven't done in 10 years!). The more I try to go braless, the less comfortable I am. If I do wear a bra, it is hard to keep it unnoticeable.
I have tried four bra styles so far and they all show a little, even the nude/skin colored ones. Adhesive bras do little or nothing to support. Is there some way to wear an actual bra but keep it from showing at the same time?

