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Unresponsive Bridesmaids

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Alicia, on August 4, 2019 at 3:46 PM

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I feel like the bridal party drama is never ending and only getting worse.

My MOH has been calling me saying that two sisters who are in my wedding have not been responding in group chats about the bridal shower or bachelorette party. There's previous underlying drama that occurred before hand but everyone assured they'd be cooperative and work together.

I haven't spoke to either of these sisters in about 2 months. I've reached out via text to them twice and they haven't responded to me either.

I just don't know what to do. If I call and say I got report that they haven't been responding it'll cause more drama because they'll say "we've been talking about them" At this point, do I ask them to step down? Also, I'm very hurt.

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Super October 2020
Ashley · on August 6, 2019 at 3:21 PM
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I picked my bridal party because they were who I loved and couldn't see my day happening without them by my side not because they would throw me parties and help plan my wedding.
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Florida Marlins · on August 6, 2019 at 4:36 PM
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Soooooo.......your party was picked to give you showers, do errands for you, shop with you and accompany you to most if not all bridal events?
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Super October 2020
Renee · on August 6, 2019 at 4:44 PM
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You vould always reach out to them and say you want to make sure everything is ok because your MOH called and just said she couldn't get ahold of them and was concerned. Maybe if you word it so it just sounds like everyone is concerned, they wont make it out to be that ppl talk about them?
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Renee · on August 6, 2019 at 4:49 PM
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But I'd be concerned that you haven't talked to/heard from them in 2 months. Do they still want to be part of your wedding?
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Expert October 2019
FutureMrsC · on August 6, 2019 at 4:59 PM
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I wouldn't stress about the pre-wedding events too much at this point. They probably aren't prioritizing it now because it's still 10 months out. My girls didn't really start planning the bachelorette party until maybe 4 months out and the shower like 3 weeks ago. Now as far as them not texting you back, that is something you may want to reach out to them about and just see if everything is okay. Everything will sort itself out one way or the other, so I wouldn't ask anyone to step down. Best of luck, these situations can suck the life out of you sometimes!
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