Unity Ceremonies - What is everyone doing?

We did a unity glass ceremony. The holders are from Michaels and the final product is TBD at this point.

I think we are doing the cord of three strands! I've found some really cute ideas on Pinterest.

@Celia, we have an officiant, we haven't gone over the ceremony with her yet, she said we will meet in a few months as the date gets closer. She will do a completely customized ceremony for us, and she says she has a list of things to consider for the ceremony. We are probably just getting ahead of ourselves with looking online for ideas. It was FH's idea to take a look and since he's been so stubborn and not very involved with things, I jumped at the opportunity to look with him. FH wants it as simple as possible, like I said he is not comfortable with speaking or being in front of our audience for a long period of time. I want to do personalized vows so I'm going to try to win him over on that. You are right and I can obviously see that this needs some tweaking. The moment of remembrance, is that for relatives that have passed away?

We're doing a glow ceremony - instead of mixing wine or sand, we're mixing together the two compounds that are used in glow sticks.

I would never include anything called a 'break up box" in a wedding

Yes, the moment of remembrance is for people who have passed; I usually don't mention specific people at that point

Celia thats fine.... the concept is the same as what was stated above... it supposed to remind a couple why they got together and why they love each other anytime when you think they want to leave their marriage. The first 5 years are rough on every couple from what ive seen and heard. Its great to have a reminder....