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Dedicated September 2009

Unique Memorial ideas

nicfrom127, on April 22, 2009 at 1:43 PM

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I need some unique memorial ideas. We had orignally decided to have a memorial service during the wedding ceremony. I started to make the list and realized that we'd be there all day. I tried to ask my fiance and my mother who I could cut from the list and they found no one. So now we're thinking a...

I need some unique memorial ideas. We had orignally decided to have a memorial service during the wedding ceremony. I started to make the list and realized that we'd be there all day. I tried to ask my fiance and my mother who I could cut from the list and they found no one. So now we're thinking a memorial ceremony is not such a good idea. I don't really want to get the candles because I want them to have the names on them which will cost a lot of money because we have a lot of names. I don't have pictures of all of them so I can't really have pictures set up. I don't want to nix the idea because both of my fiance's parents are deceased and I want to have them some how some way a part of our day as well as a few close family members. (The list is so long because I have a HUGE family and we're all close). So does anyone have any ideas? Also someone had told me flowers I have allergies and I want something different and unique.

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  • Teems
    Super October 2009
    Teems ·
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    I don't have any ideas yet but I have been looking as well. I have lost both of my parents, a brother and more that were close to me. I don't want to be crying anymore that day then I have to. So I will be checking in to this post as the suggestions develop. Great topic.

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  • Jeanne
    Beginner October 2010
    Jeanne ·
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    I was searching for a different way to do a memorial... I found this website that has remebrance pins shaped in a tear and in the middle has a rose on a embossed card with a beautiful saying and the story behind the person who made it. www.limogesjewelry.com

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  • K
    Master October 2011
    Kiss My ·
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    We have chosen to do parents, grandparents, siblings, and children at ours. FH's dad and brother and my grandmother and daughter with a blessing for all deceased loved ones. We will have a picture of them with a candle to be lit as the wedding ceremony begins

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    Dedicated September 2009
    nicfrom127 ·
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    What we ended up doing was making picture frames with poems. For dinner we had assigned seats and we sat everyone at a table with the person's name and a nice poem of a loved one that was also close to them and us. People loved and are still talking about it. It was a real hit and people later came to me and asked me for a copy of the poems.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes July 2011
    Katie ·
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    I didn't read all the comments, but I attended a wedding a couple years ago where the bride and groom had a vase off to the side of the alter with a rose for each deceased family/friend they wanted honored and on the back of the program was the reasoning why the roses were up there. Hope this helps!

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  • Julie
    Just Said Yes May 1995
    Julie ·
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    My daughter is getting married in January & wanted a way to remember several deceased grandparents & infants without adding anything into the actual ceremony (it would take too long) but wanted to be a little different from the common candles, flowers, doves, balloons, & pictures.

    So, the idea is to display a Lantern at the reception with a frame that says:

    "In remembrance of those who are still guiding our paths & warming our hearts, whose love will forever light up our lives, as we take them along on our journey."

    There will also be tags for the guests to write passed loved-one's names & tie them to the lantern.

    I just love the fact that it's interactive & it's not forcing anyone into a depressing mood - they can choose whether to participate or not. Plus, it's not generic & there's no risk of a name being forgotten from a list.

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  • H
    Just Said Yes July 2014
    Hannah ·
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    Check out www.memorialvine.com, it is an incredibly beautiful way of remembering a lost loved one. They can even supply more of the wine for weddings.

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