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Uninviting people to your wedding/reducing numbers

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Nikki, on November 26, 2020 at 2:50 AM

We've already had to postpone our wedding twice: once because my fiance had a career change, and then again we postponed our November wedding due to COVID. I've waited long enough to meet "the one", so I'm not interested in postponing again (I just turned 46). Problem is that I sent out Save the...

We've already had to postpone our wedding twice: once because my fiance had a career change, and then again we postponed our November wedding due to COVID.

I've waited long enough to meet "the one", so I'm not interested in postponing again (I just turned 46).

Problem is that I sent out Save the Dates after my engagement. We'd like to reduce our initial number of 85 down to 45 due to social distance, drop in income due to a month of quarantine, etc.

Does anyone have any advice/feedback on a classy way of uninviting people?

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Willow · on November 27, 2020 at 2:30 PM
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When is your new wedding date?

If you're worried about covid and finances, I'd drop the guest count to just immediate family, and livestream to everyone else. We had a backyard minimony and ordered DoorDash for our "reception."
85 to 45 is a big cut, but a 45 person wedding is still going to look big to the 30 people who got disinvited. Also, a 45 person gathering isn't covid safe, and it might not be permitted.
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