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uninviting family to the wedding ... RAnt

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Williams10-11-12, on May 11, 2014 at 7:37 PM

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sorry this a rant ... My mother has decided on uninviting my brother and sister in law. Long story short . Scene my brother was about 16 years old hes been really close to another family and basically abandoned my mom and I. He joined the military and then decided to talk to us again. All went down...

Sorry this a rant ... My mother has decided on uninviting my brother and sister in law. Long story short . Scene my brother was about 16 years old hes been really close to another family and basically abandoned my mom and I. He joined the military and then decided to talk to us again. All went down hill scene he got married. My mom was invited to their wedding ( not me but i had to work anyways) He didn't include her in the formal wedding photos ( even parents and groom pictures) but he took pictures with "the other family" .Any ways communication is getting worse and worse and He will not talk to my mom and didnt even tell her happy mothers day(OMG really she raised you as a single mom and you cant tell her thanks one day out of the year) So my mom does not want them there and now im 2 guest and one BM down. But its okay I guess Im done with all his crap I know Im the youngest but I am more mature then him. Sorry for the Rant Anyone else have brother/family issues?

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Blissful · on May 15, 2014 at 3:15 PM
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Mine isn't as dramatic but my brother has never been as close with my parents. He has no self esteem and always feels left out even though he does it to himself. He is coming to my wedding but refuses to be in it and won't tell me why.
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Lindsey · on June 25, 2014 at 9:37 AM
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I have a mostly estranged stepbrother. He doesn't get along wtih my mom and step dad at all. When I asked my ma about inviting him to the wedding she said it was "my wedding, my decision." So becuase techinically he used to be close to the family I invited him (to be nice I guess)........REALLY bad idea. When my mom found out (from my grandma) that he was invited she freaked out saying that I care more about his feeling then hers. I guess I was supposed to make the "right" decision and didn't. I wish at this point I could uninvite him....but he has already rsvp'd. AHHHH, I hate drama!
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