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Keisly
Dedicated November 2021

Uninvited guest

Keisly, on December 12, 2019 at 7:07 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 27

So recently I’ve been running into people that I know from high school or I know them because they used to be around at some point in my life, BUT, some of them kind of invite themselves to the wedding, they usually say things like “I’m invited to you wedding right” or “I’m coming to the wedding”...
So recently I’ve been running into people that I know from high school or I know them because they used to be around at some point in my life, BUT, some of them kind of invite themselves to the wedding, they usually say things like “I’m invited to you wedding right” or “I’m coming to the wedding” and honestly it puts me in a hard spot because I know for sure I won’t be invited them at all, how do you ladies and gentlemen deal with that? Has anyone had any similar problem... thanks

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  • Keisly
    Dedicated November 2021
    Keisly ·
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    Yeah I’m definitely not inviting them, y’all are making me feel so much better about this constant issue I have going on, thank you
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  • Alycia
    Expert September 2021
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    We actually had person log on to our password protectes wedding website. This fellow was a 2nd cousin of my fiance and received the info from a guest who was invite. I sent him an email asking who he was and how did he receive my information.


    We wrote on the invitations not to give our our website information to anyone after the incident.
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  • Keisly
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    😱 omg who does that!!! I will be so embarrassed if I was that person!! Wowww that’s kind of crazy
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    OMGG that is so irritating, and I've actually been worried about this happening. I didn't put "don't give out our website information" on our invites, but I've been trying to think of a way to combat this if the situation were to take place. I mean that's so sneaky, you know? Not being invited, and having to grasp at straws, asking those who ARE invited to give them the details. That's crazy. If this happens and I have unexpected guests, unfortunately they will not be accommodated. They literally will be standing for the entire night.

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    Keisley, don't worry about it. You can either ignore these people or simply say something like, "we're so happy you'd like to come and celebrate our special day with us, but unfortunately we're having an intimate gathering, or we've exceeded our guest list or something like that and that you are unable to accommodate anyone else. Sorry" And that's pretty much it!!!

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  • Keisly
    Dedicated November 2021
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    Thank you! I’m just going to ignore them!! Or laugh it off 😂
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Even if you have the space, I'd just lie and say sorry there's no space ahah.
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