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Just Said Yes June 2022

Uninvite guests who haven't Rsvp'd because our budget is tight??

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Danielle, on May 1, 2022 at 3:44 PM

Our wedding is coming up in 60 days and due to unfortunate events our budget is really tight. I'm worried about even being able to put this wedding off at this point. Here's my dilemma. We invited about 100 guests to our wedding and asked them to RSVP by December 1st. We had about 30 people not...

Our wedding is coming up in 60 days and due to unfortunate events our budget is really tight. I'm worried about even being able to put this wedding off at this point.

Here's my dilemma. We invited about 100 guests to our wedding and asked them to RSVP by December 1st. We had about 30 people not respond. Most of these people are my fiancé's friends from college and their wives.

Is it inappropriate to 'uninvite' them or let them know we can no longer accommodate them at our wedding? I was thinking of sending them nice stationary in the mail and live streaming the ceremony to still include them.

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H · on May 7, 2022 at 10:54 PM
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I agree with most of the previous points. Why don’t you do this:
Text all the people who have already RSVP’d yes and see if they are still coming. Give them a way out “We hope you are doing well! We are reaching out to see if your RSVP is still a yes to our wedding on *** date. We understand circumstances and plans change so please do not feel bad if you must change your RSVP to a “no”. Please let us know by the end of the week.”
If you do this, you’ll have a better idea of your true number of “yes” and can decide if you need to postpone or not. If 30 drop, your problem is solved and you can just send out the rest of your invites.
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