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Just Said Yes January 2011

Uninvite a Bridesmaid from the Wedding Party

Jordan, on August 16, 2010 at 1:29 PM Posted in Planning 0 5

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So I'm in a bit of a pickle. I have a girlfriend that I asked to be a bridesmaid, and long story short, it is in the best interest to ask her not to be a bridesmaid. She blatantly told me she hopes that my wedding does not go through. She can't stand my FH and he feels the same about her. I have been friends with her for a very long time, and I cannot seem to come up with a good way to tell her that she has been replaced. I want to keep the friendship in tact if at all possible.

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Latest activity by Unique, on August 16, 2010 at 2:36 PM

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Danielle · on August 16, 2010 at 1:31 PM
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Considering the way she feels about your FS, I'm guessing that continuing the friendship after your marriage will be almost impossible. However, perhaps telling her that based on the way they feel about each other, it would be best if she did not stand up, as those standing are supposed to be witnesses in support of the marriage.
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The O-fficial MrsJoseph! · on August 16, 2010 at 1:53 PM
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Agree with danielle
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The Awesome Thief · on August 16, 2010 at 1:54 PM
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Hmmm. Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news but from what you've said, I don't think there is a way to tell her and keep the friendship. Obviously she doesn't like your fiance, who will be your husband in 6 months. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone who said that about my wedding.
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*~* Soon to be Mrs. Murphey *~* · on August 16, 2010 at 1:55 PM
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Wow i am so sorry... i would just be honest. there is no delicate way to say it but like @danielle said... it is mutual and for YOUR best interest on YOUR day she need not come... good luck dear
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STB Mrs.Caissie · on August 16, 2010 at 1:56 PM
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I agree with Danielle... your MOH & BMs should be there to support you & your FH.. and if she told you that she hopes your wedding doesn't go through, why did she say yes in the first place? Who does that?
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