How involved was/is your fiance during wedding planning? I've become extremely frustrated with my fiance of late - we are having other issues, but discussing the wedding almost feels like the last straw.
A little background - we got engaged on New Year's Eve. It was really sweet and exciting, but as of today we still have not booked a venue. We looked at a couple places, but I've pretty much done all the work (researching venues, booking appointments etc.).
What hurts me the most is that he has an "it's YOUR day" attitude. He has made it clear many times that he does not want this, and that we're spending all this money and creating all this work because "I want it." I had hoped that planning for a wedding would be a great opportunity to bond, but now I feel like it's driving us further apart.
I talked to him about this, but his answer is basically, well I don't want this and I'm going through all this because you do.
Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do?
