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Teagan
Dedicated September 2017

Under 21 Bachelorette Party fun

Teagan, on November 15, 2016 at 11:02 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 17

I have 6 girls in my bridal party - 4 of them will be 21 by the day of the wedding! The two younger ones will both be 17 (my little sister and my best friends/MOH's little sister that is just like family).

The older girls plus my other close friends will be having a more traditional bachelorette party but I don't want the younger girls to feel left out all together! Do y'all have any fun ideas of appropriate ways to include them in a separate way?

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Latest activity by GoingBALDwin!!!!!, on November 16, 2016 at 5:37 PM
  • T
    Dedicated November 2016
    Tori ·
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    My sister is only 14 so for mine we went to Olive garden and the older girls and I had wine with our meal and afterwards we all went and got our nails done

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  • AyEmVee
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    AyEmVee ·
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    Look to see if there are any pole dancing studios in your area! No stripping involved, but it's a lot of fun and just a little risqué. Perfect for a bachelorette party for people of all ages!

    Just be sure to mention the ages of your bridal party to the studio. They may need their parents to sign a liability waiver.

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  • Britny
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    Have a spa day!

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  • Flying
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    When FSIL got married we went bowling for those that couldn't/didn't want to go to the bar then went to the bar and got smashed. It was an awesome night.

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  • Mrs.KatieK
    Master September 2016
    Mrs.KatieK ·
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    Pole dancing is so much fun! I've been doing it for 3 years now.

    Bowling, spa day, one of those painting classes, a nice dinner, an arcade like Dave & Busters.

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  • HurricaneK
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    HurricaneK ·
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    Laser tag, dinner, mini golf, or spa day then maybe go out later with the older ladies to do more traditional things

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  • AyEmVee
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    @MrsKatieK Woo for pole dancing! I did pole for 2 years, then switched to aerial silks because i just felt so much more comfortable on them. But there's still a special place in my heart for the pole. Smiley smile

    ETA: OP, if you don't think your bridal party would go for the pole dancing, you could also do an aerial silks or even an aerial hoop or trapeze class. Those are also a lot of fun but don't have the same stigma. A lot of pole studios offer classes/parties on a variety of circus apparatuses.

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  • Carly
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    Carly ·
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    Dave and busters!!

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  • Ann
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    Ann ·
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    You could still get out of town & relax in the sun, poolside at a nice hotel then dinner. That's what I would do Smiley smile

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  • Chip
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    Chip ·
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    I think paint classes are fun! Did an escape game tonight, I would enjoy one of those too. I don't drink so my bach party will probably be pretty low key, so these are things I'd like to do!

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  • Bstar0306
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    For my sisters bachelorette party we did painting with a twist (everyone was over 21 but she wanted something low-key since it was a few days before her wedding).

    For mine we're going to a pottery studio - doing dishes.

    I had a friend that did a low-key thing in the afternoon like a lingerie shower or something and in the evening the 21+ people went to a bar.

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  • Christinanyc
    Master December 2016
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    Paint Nite with virgin drinks available! That's what I'm doing for mine.

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  • Lorith
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    Lorith ·
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    I'm not a big partier. Even though my girls were all of age, we did dinner and a slumber party with my favorite board games.

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  • Teagan
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    Teagan ·
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    Thank you!! These are all such great ideas! Smiley smile

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  • carriemichelle
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    carriemichelle ·
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    Dinner and then Paint Nite.

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  • Wifin'
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    Spa day or something they like to do for just the three of you.

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  • GoingBALDwin!!!!!
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    GoingBALDwin!!!!! ·
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    Painting with a twist!!!! So much fun!

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