Under 21 Bachelorette Guest

This was my issue because my sister is my MOH and she's only 20...it's ending up that she isn't going because she'll be in VA for school but we were trying to plan a night out at an 18+ bar if she would. There are a few male revue type shows that are 18+ in Boston so that was a possibility too. You could always just rent a house or hotel room in cool place and do dinner, activities, a theatre show, etc...

But I really wanted bar hopping etc...so under 21 isn't working out to well for that!

Pole dancing class!

Do a seperate event if the girls wanna bar hop or do something racey. i have a sister that will be 18 at the time so i will do something underage friendly and then have a wild night with the older girls.

@Lisa what are the 18+ male revue shows!? I live in Boston, and one of my BM's will only be 19 at the time.

Depends on what your style is.. if you want to go out drinking you could do so at a restaurant so it's not a 21 and over only type of place. You could do a spa day.. there are a lot of more creative ladies on here but it really depends on what your style is - big party or more laid back?

I would not change plans to accommodate the younger girls unless the bride wanted to. Perhaps find a bar/restaurant where they let under 21yo in before a certain time?

My experiences:

- My younger sister was only 19 during my bachelorette party so we went on a cruise to Mexico so she could drink.

- I planned a bachelorette party in Vegas where one of the bride's SILs was not 21. The under 21 year old decided to come along anyways. She used her friend's ID. I didn't agree with what was going on but I certainly wasn't going to accommodate an under 21 year old in Vegas. It ended up not being an issue

I was in a wedding that did a spa day in nyc and a nice dinner and then the underager and mother of the groom were going to go home and the rest got a hotel and went dancing and bar hopping in the city. Ended up they didn't make it bc something came up but it could have worked.

We had a spa day for the last bride I was MOH for

They're called "Designated Drivers"

We're talking about going to an indoor/outdoor water park and then staying at the hotel for a slumber party. There will be alcohol in the hotel room so everyone will be able to drink rather than everyone over 21 going out and leaving a couple of girls behind

There's always fun things. I'm wanting to have an alternative bacc party to have fun.... like a boat trip or we have ziplines here too and lots of fun stuff.

You could go do an activity where they serve alcohol but you don't have to be 21 to be there: bowling, spa day, sporting event or a weekend getaway to the beach or a cabin or something. Or you could do a fun slumber party with cheesy games.