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Beginner December 2021

Uncooperative bridesmaids

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Jenna, on August 4, 2021 at 7:05 PM

Hi everyone. I’m getting married December 11 and I have six bridesmaids. I bought shoes and accessories for everyone and it was understood whenever we got engaged that each girl would be responsible for her dress. The only restrictions were that it be floor length and wine red. I have been engaged for 18 months and frankly I feel these ladies have had plenty of time to look into buying dresses. I now have four months until my wedding day and only one girl has bought a dress. I have politely reminded people once a month for the past four months and people simply respond “I know!” Am I wrong to be upset about this situation?

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Beginner December 2021
Jenna · on August 5, 2021 at 10:21 PM
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Thanks everyone- I will take all your advice to heart.
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Savvy November 2021
· on August 5, 2021 at 10:45 PM
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I know the feeling! If you haven’t already, try picking out a specific website (Azazie, Birdy Grey, etc) and color… maybe they are over whelmed and avoiding it. You can add a few styles you like to your cart and see how long shipping would be.. azazie takes like 3-4 weeks to arrive I think. Maybe if you give them more specifics they will be more likely to buy it sooner than later. Like “the dresses take 1 month to ship and you might need a few more weeks to get it hemmed so please order it by X date” doesn’t hurt to throw in the possibility of Covid shipping delays lol
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