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Two Maids of Honor?!

Anna , on January 21, 2014 at 3:48 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 27

Help! Okay so there are two best friends I want to each be my MOH. We have been friends since we were 4 (we are all now 23 and 24). We were the trio of the neighborhood, we did everything together. I can't imagine not having them both and there is absolutely no way I could pick between the two. They...

Help! Okay so there are two best friends I want to each be my MOH. We have been friends since we were 4 (we are all now 23 and 24). We were the trio of the neighborhood, we did everything together.

I can't imagine not having them both and there is absolutely no way I could pick between the two. They each have their own strengths and weaknesses and make up for where the other lacks.

Has anyone ever had, or is having 2 MOHs?!?! How did it go?

Thanks Smiley smile

27 Comments

  • Soon2BMrs.Matulay
    Devoted May 2014
    Soon2BMrs.Matulay ·
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    I have two MOH's, but in the end they really are just titles. My BFF lives in another state and isn't able to help a whole lot with the planning, but I couldn't imagine anyone else giving a speech about me or being next to me the day of. My other MOH is my cousin. The one that ended up planning most of my activities (Bridal shower, Bachelorette Party) was my Future SIL, who is also a bridesmaid. Thank goodness for her. We also have to best men. Having two MOH's is not weird at all!

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  • mara
    Devoted May 2014
    mara ·
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    I have a maid of honor and a matron of honor. One is a friend I have had for 20 years but lives 6 hours away. The other is a friend I have been so close to this past year, she is like my sister. It is your wedding, do what makes you happy!

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  • mrs. joyceee
    Super September 2014
    mrs. joyceee ·
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    You can totally have TWO MOHs! Having two people to organize your bridesmaids will work well...as you said, what one lacks the other will be good at...sounds like a great team!

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  • MrsNewvine
    VIP September 2014
    MrsNewvine ·
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    I asked both my sisters to be my Maids of Honor. I could never choose between them. My older sister is handling most of the shower plans & my little sister is helping more with registries, shopping & DIY.

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  • Mrs. Katie J
    Super October 2013
    Mrs. Katie J ·
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    I had my sister and my cousin (who's like a sister) both as my matron's of honor, in addition to 6 bridesmaids; it worked out beautifully and I wouldn't change it for the world!! I distinguished them from the rest of the bridesmaids with a wrap for their dress, and my sisters dress was ever-so-slightly different than everyone else's, so she was just a little more distinguished than everyone else. Personally, I recommend it!! Smiley winking


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  • Jessie
    Dedicated September 2014
    Jessie ·
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    I'm having 2 MOHs! I have a sister and BFF that I just can't choose between. We were all super close growing up.

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  • A
    Just Said Yes November 2013
    Angela ·
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    Hi everyone! I'm my friend's MOH and she has a second MOH as well but she only wants me to give a speech. How can I help her figure out a kind way to tell the second MOH? Is there something else she could do? Ideas welcome!

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