Two bridal showers? Isn't that wrong?

My FSIL wanted to throw one for me as well as my MOH. One will be for friends and my family and then the other will be for my FH family! Not a big deal just don't invite the same people to both!

Girl no.

I literally had 5 showers with 0 guest overlap because I am from one town, DH is from another, we live in an entirely different city, my mom's family couldn't come to the one in my hometown (they're from about an hour away) and wanted to throw one and my work wanted to throw a shower. The only person other than us who came to multiples was my mom.

It was exhausting and I don't recommend it but 2 is fine. I felt like it looked greedy at first but then when I started to say no people got their feelings hurt. Let's just say my white shower dress got some wear.

ETA: Where I'm from if you bring a gift to the shower you don't bring one to the wedding so we had very few gifts at the actual wedding which was obviously fine.

I had 2 showers, because my mom lives in CA and she threw a bridal shower with all her friends in CA that are coming to the wedding, then my MOH threw me a shower in Charlotte ( where we live) just for my friends. I think as long as you dont invite the same people for both of the showers it would be ok, so I would just make sure you check with both of them who they are inviting and make sure they don't overlap so people don't feel like they need to bring you 2 gifts.

If they want to both throw you a shower, it's fine. I would split the guest list so people are not invited to both.

But, if they are having them at the same location you could bring it up again about doing the showers together. It might save them both some money on rental fees and stuff.

So im having two showers but maybe three. so my moh is throwing one here in stl then my fmil is throwing one in st.joe, mo for my kc and st.joe family and then i hear my aunt wants to throw one for me in kc. i think it is a little much but i would never take this special moment from them

I had two. The only overlap was between VIPs (my mom, my fmil, one bridesmaid). Both sets of hosts really wanted to throw one and were planning to invite different sets of wedding guests, so having two made each one more manageable.

You can definitely have multiple showers, but it does feel a little weird that they would be in the same location (specific venue and geographical area)! Typically couples have multiple showers because their families live in different states!

https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/showers-and-parties/bridal-shower-etiquette

IN THEORY, relatives shouldn't throw showers; isn't it possible to do just one? It seems excessive, especially in the same location.

Yup, 2 is fine! I'm having one for my friends thrown by my MOH and one for family/my mom's friends hosted by her friend. Different guest lists, except for VIPs and bridal party members. Most of the VIPs and BP are OOT, so I wanted them to have their choice of dates.

I had a friend who had FIVE bridal showers. Yes, FIVE! My mom tried to force me to do the same thing.

2 is fine if you have different guests lists though (moms, best friends, sisters can come to both).

Technically, you're not involved with either shower, so while it's better to throw one shower that includes every important person in your life, your FMIL isn't willing to do that. You can't force her, and you shouldn't even be involved, so, it is what it is. Some brides have four showers -- friends, family, coworkers, and church people. It's no reflection on you, so let it go and consider yourself a lucky lady.

Your biggest worry is sending out lots of thank you cards.