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Trying not to take RSVPs personally.

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Annie & Javi, on August 8, 2014 at 11:26 PM

I am very close knit with my family and my mother and I go above and beyond all the time to help out our family members when needed for numerous things. Well our engagement party is nearing and three families that are among those that we have helped out and gone out of our way for on more than one occasion has RSVPed saying 'no'. Well one RSVPed, the other two couldn't even be bothered. I am trying not to take this personally but for as much as we have done for them in the past I can't help but to feel angry. I am at the point in my life where I just want to burn bridges because I feel like I shouldn't waste any more time with people who can't be bothered with me. I just kind of want to 'delete' them out of my life and be done with it, no telling them off or mentioning why, I just want them to simply go away. End of vent.

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Master October 2015
Annie & Javi · on August 9, 2014 at 5:35 PM
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To me our engagement party is important, its a day where our immediate family membes are supposed to come together and meet before the wedding and to celebrate our engagement. In our families engagement parties are a big deal and are planned almost as carefully as a wedding reception. For what i have done for my cousins in the past it really just hurts that they cant be bothered to RSVP and that one came up with an extremely lame excuse. This is the first party i have thrown in eight years and its the same people who turned down that party as well. I have the right to be upset. I said I want to cut them off, i didnt say i would. I was VENTING.
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