FH and I have been engaged since January and the wedding isn't until 10/2020. I`ve been mildly planning here and there. buying stuff for DIYs and getting basic ideas for what i want but TBH everyone seems a little uninterested and I`m wondering if its because its so far away? maybe i talk about it too much lol. Also I am not sure if its too soon to pick things out or anything maybe a little overwhelmed. not 100% on what im doing here.