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Didiani
Beginner May 2021

Too early to plan?

Didiani, on May 1, 2020 at 9:46 AM Posted in Planning 0 26
I’ve been engaged since May of last year, I started planning our wedding now and we’re getting married May 2021. Is it too early or I can totally continue? So far, we’ve booked the venue at Porta in Asbury Park NJ.

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Latest activity by Didiani, on May 2, 2020 at 8:57 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    One year is definitely not too far out to plan.

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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
    Didiani ·
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    Thanks! His family makes it seem likes such a long time from now but you’re totally right!
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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
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    I would definitely start now because vendors book up fast. Especially for May, and especially for 2021 because so many brides are postponing their wedding til next year.
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  • Shana
    Dedicated October 2020
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    I started planning about 2 years in advance and when I started booking like hair and makeup artists about a year and a half in advance a lot of them were already booked for my date, so definately get things done sooner rather than later. It’ll be less stressful once you get closer to the day too!
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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Awesome advice! Thank you!
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I would definitely get on top of booking all of your major wedding vendors!!

    Here are also a few other recent discussions from May 2021 brides - you can connect with them and share planning updates:

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  • Angela
    Savvy November 2021
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    I also got engaged in May last year and am getting married in May 2021! I already have my venue, DJ, photographer, and know who I am going with for florist. I have my save the dates too just haven’t addressed them or done anything with them yet since arriving. I would definitely start booking the major vendors and it is definitely not too early. I am starting to feel stressed that I don’t have enough done right now even though there’s still a year to go! But I would say you know yourself best. I’m a big planner and like to get things done earlier and hate procrastinating!
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  • Suzann
    Dedicated October 2021
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    It's definitely not too early to plan! Plan away.

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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Oh my god! Im the same way! Sometimes my fiancé looks at me like I’m crazy! I sent out my save the dates yesterday. I booked my venue this week, I started looking into wedding dresses and booked my photographer. I spoke to a florist this morning, and I already started searching
    For bridesmaids dresses and finalizing some stuff
    Contractual wise with my go to makeup artist. Thank you for your advice. I feel more comfortable planning now!
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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Thank you for the positivity!😜
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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Thank you for this! How do I join that wedding group?
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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    I agree! We have a family member who was suppose to get married in June but due to covid they are having it a month after us.
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  • Angela
    Savvy November 2021
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    I am sure I overwhelm my fiancé all the time when I get into planning mode..and I have no middle ground I feel like I go from no wedding talk to constant wedding planning 24/7 in the matter of a day lol! I did just order some swatches from Birdy Grey and Azazie for bridesmaid dresses and also just for myself to start using for color coordination. But I have seen other women on other posts that have had their weddings pretty much completely planned like a year out which is crazy! Good luck on your planning!
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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Thank you you too! keep me posted on how your doing with your wedding planning! I'm going to take a look into swatches too! didn't think about that.

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  • Angela
    Savvy November 2021
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    Birdy Grey has three free swatches right now with a promo code if you go to their website! And Azazie charges $2 per swatch or has a book for $10 of all the colors for bridesmaid dresses!
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  • Brittany
    Savvy October 2021
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    It is not too early as a lot of 2020 brides had to move their dates to 2021. So planning now especially with venues would prob alleviate stress.

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  • Lena
    Devoted May 2021
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    Our wedding is also next may and we have everything all booked, signed and almost paid for. Our venue books out 2 years in advance for weekend weddings. Not too early at all.

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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Thank you so much for the positivity! Makes me feel more secure that im not too early at all.

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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Just ordered the swatches from birdy grey! thanks for that!

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  • Didiani
    Beginner May 2021
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    Thank you to all the beautiful brides for their comments and ideas! I appreciate it A LOT and have no clue how much more secure I feel to keep planning!

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