To postpone or continue as planned

Date is set for Oct 25th, 2020. Venue booked and half paid for. Photographer paid for, cake, and invites paid. Save the dates sent out. Catering half paid. I have my dress (didn't pay much at all and love it. Thanks Uniquely Vintage!)


He is an RN (in charge of infectious disease no less) I am in an essential civil service (labor division) and lucky to be able to telework. We are are watching these numbers and really trying to figure out what to do.

All of our family falls into high risk. I assumed it would be ok but with things just trying to figure out how to reopen, we are not sure if we should. Our guest list was only 80 including us. So...not huge but I'm still not sure if just doing a small ceremony is better or not.
What made me unsure is state parks are attempting to reopen, some counties are talking about mandatory stay at home order again due to a spike, our stay still hasn't lifted the official order. My job (EDD in CA processing Unemployment claims) has said we are to telework for the foreseeable future.
Then there is part of me that feels like I'm not comfortable with being the center of attention like that and would rather just have 15 people there in a small spot in the redwoods and maybe doing a reception later to celebrate with everyone else.
Any thoughts?