So newly engaged as of last week! Yay! But I've been lurking on here for my best friends wedding as an 'honorary maid of honor' (she has 2 sisters and she felt obligated to make them maids of honor but they're both under the age of 18 so I volunteered to plan the bachelorette party amongst other things) for a couple months now.
Anyway my FH is a Merchant Marine so he goes out on cargo ships every now and then for 2-4 months at a time. Well he's possibly leaving some time in April, don't know when exactly yet nor do we know how long he'll be gone for. So my question is do we even bother with having an engagement party and if so do we do it before he leaves or after he gets back? Our families haven't met yet and we're planning on having a dinner with both our parents soon but no one else has met each other and I'd like them to have a chance to meet before the wedding and celebrate with them.