I will admit, I am in a bit of a slump and very frustrated. I just want to say sorry in advance for the long post.
When my Fiancé and I got engaged I was excited about planning our wedding. I had so many great ideas and was really looking forward to everything. I always wanted a wedding, not necessarily a big one, but defiantly something unique.
A few weeks after we got engaged we started talking about the who, what, when, and wheres of the wedding. We originally wanted to have it on our farm in the orchard. I had my little heart set on this because I always wanted an outdoor wedding and my Fiancé loved the idea of having it on his family farm. I had a vision of what we wanted it to be, vintage inspired, and he loved the idea.
Then came everyone else's opinions.........I was aware that outside weddings were risky, I knew that we would have some obstacles in planning for an outdoor event. That was never a problem until everyone else got the idea to chime in.
Now we have pretty much scrapped the idea of having it at our farm, even though we both still love the idea. My Fiancé thinks it’s going to take too much to prep the area and it's too risky (we are looking at a September 2019 Date). So, I started researching venues. Well my Fiancé doesn't like something about every single one that I show him: the price, the location, the look of it, etc. And to be totally honest, I don't love any of them. My Fiancé wants a venue that costs under $1,000 and would seat approx. 150 (not very realistic unless I go to a local fire hall, which isn't either of our styles) and I just wanted somewhere nice, not extravagant, just nice.
After looking and looking, I can't find a venue that would please us and I am quite frankly tired of looking. I have looked at so many different venues and all I have found is disappointment. I literally don't even care what the venue looks like at this point because I am so busy just trying to find something cheap and close, so we don't have to spend a lot on the venue and to make my Fiancé happy. (Overall, I am a pretty flexible and laid-back person, so I'm not too picky about the where so it doesn't bother me finding a place that my Fiancé prefers.)
So that background brings me to my question/dilemma/need for advice:
I have hit this point where I don't want to plan anything else and I don't really care what kind of wedding we have. I brought up going to Vegas (or somewhere) for a few days and just eloping and my Fiancé was hesitant about it but said it wouldn't be a bad idea. I have always wanted a real wedding, at least up to this point I did.
I don't know if I am just considering Elopement because I'm tired of planning, or at least trying to plan, or if it’s because that's what I really want. I don't want to look at anymore venues and I don't want to be disappointed anymore. I am stuck in a hard spot.
Has anyone had a similar experience?
What did you do?
What do you think a good option is for us to look into?
Anyone elope and if so, if you don't mind sharing, how much did you spend?
Thanks
a ton, and again sorry for the long post.