At this point I just want to scrap it all and elope by the end of the month.
Had anyone ever ever done this? And if they have, did you keep it a secret? Or did you still have your public ceremony?
My issue is going to be: his parents and sisters are more than welcome to be there. I don’t know that I want ANY of my family there. I’m so afrai my mom is going to try and ruin my wedding on purpose like she did my sisters baby shower (a different story for another time) that id just like a chance to not worry about it. I hoped it might take some of the pressure off of planning if we were already married. The only commitments: I haven’t paid the church but I’ve booked it, I’ve put the down payment on the photographer, and I’ve bought my dress.
I really need some help here. I’ve been tearing myself up over this for weeks and I’m still at a loss. Any kind advice is appreciated.
