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Christina
Dedicated May 2018

Tips for unplugged wedding

Christina, on November 7, 2017 at 12:38 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 50

I went to a wedding last May and noticed everyone was in the aisle taking pictures and it ruined the professional photos. After that, i decided I was going to have a phone free wedding ceremony. What is the best way to announce this? For sure I am putting a chalkboard sign outside of the entrance...

I went to a wedding last May and noticed everyone was in the aisle taking pictures and it ruined the professional photos. After that, i decided I was going to have a phone free wedding ceremony. What is the best way to announce this? For sure I am putting a chalkboard sign outside of the entrance but there are a lot of doors so I'm worried some people won't see it. Is it appropriate to use a program insert? What are other good ways to get word across without being rude?

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  • charms88
    Savvy August 2018
    charms88 ·
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    We have included an announcement in our script for the officiant, as well as including it in our FAQs.

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  • Sara P.
    VIP October 2018
    Sara P. ·
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    I've tossed this idea back and forth. If we do it, we'll just have our officiant announce it before she starts.

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  • hannahdee
    Super June 2018
    hannahdee ·
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    Last wedding we were at the officiant made an announcement and no one fought it

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  • Mrs J
    Expert May 2018
    Mrs J ·
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    I hadn't even thought about this, but very much appreciate the idea. :-)

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  • MrsMcK
    VIP September 2017
    MrsMcK ·
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    I think it's rude and strange that people feel the need to make their ceremony "unplugged". Who are these people you're inviting? Do they not know how weddings work? I don't think guests obstructing your photographer is as common as Pinterest thinks it is.

    We got some great photos from our guests at the ceremony(see pic), and not a single person got in the photographers' way. Because my guests acted like, you know, reasonable adult human people.


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  • Kristen328
    Super September 2018
    Kristen328 ·
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    My friend had her officiant announce it. I think it's a great idea

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  • MrsMcK
    VIP September 2017
    MrsMcK ·
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    Here is another great shot a guest got while NOT getting in the photographers' way.


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  • Courtney
    Expert September 2022
    Courtney ·
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    I think it's better to have the officiant make an announcement along the lines of:

    "The bride and groom ask that guests turn their phones to silent, and refrain from taking photos as they enter the ceremony. Otherwise, please be mindful of the their professional photographer."

    Then guests aren't ruining your coming in, but are still free to take some cool shots during the ceremony without feeing like they'll get slapped on the wrist later.

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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
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    We are going to have our pastor announce that it is an unplugged ceremony right before the bridal party begins walking out! Saves money on the extra paper just for people to throw it away. It's not uncommon either! We just went to a wedding where they announced it was unplugged and everyone was super respectful and put their phones away. They even asked that No one post photos on social media of the bride and groom until after the reception ended. I liked that idea because I don't want my first picture on social media to be a crummy tagged cell phone pic! Just me though.

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  • E
    Super October 2017
    Emily ·
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    Count me in with not understanding unplugged. My guests got some amazing photos that the photographers could't get because of the angle they had. I don't care how "present" they were for our ceremony - I wouldn't have noticed if someone was looking at their phone anyway. My photographer was amazing and I love their shots BUT my guests got some very cool shots AND it was actually really fun to spend the next day looking at all the cool pictures the next day or two way before I would have anything professional. It was a fun way to keep the feeling going and allowed us to enjoy our weekend reminiscing while the high from getting married was still there.

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  • Mia
    Savvy February 2018
    Mia ·
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    I would have the priest or whoever is marrying you announce it as well as a sign!

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  • Leeee
    Devoted November 2017
    Leeee ·
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    We had our officiant make an announcement before the ceremony started, it worked really well for us.

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  • FutureMrsPaldino
    Super October 2017
    FutureMrsPaldino ·
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    Our DOC announced it before the ceremony started. Your officiant could announce it as well.

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  • Lili518
    Just Said Yes May 2018
    Lili518 ·
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    I am thinking of posting a little sign when guests first walk in asking to silence phones and refrain from taking pics, but after ceremony enjoy taking pics but asking to either tag with a hashtag or figure a way for their pics to end up in one spot so we can look at all of them.

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  • JerseyGirl
    Master May 2017
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    UO but I don't agree with an unplugged wedding. Adults are adults. I have never been to a wedding where phones were an issue. Our wedding was on the smaller side (about 55). Everyone invited was close to us....so I can say everyone was present during our wedding. It was great to have some pics of our day while we were waiting for sneak peeks and pics from our photog.

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  • Bunnycita
    Super October 2017
    Bunnycita ·
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    I had a sign... my officiant also asked.... guess what?! From MY side everyone had their phones out. Hopefully they didn't ruin professional photos and videos.

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  • Talullah
    VIP May 2018
    Talullah ·
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    We are doing a sign at the entrance to the ceremony. Officiant will also announce in case not everyone saw the sign or didn't read it.

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  • Hailey
    Dedicated May 2018
    Hailey ·
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    Most officiants are more then happy to make an announcement before the ceremony starts

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  • FutureMrsHill
    Expert April 2018
    FutureMrsHill ·
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    I was thinking about this, myself. Now, I think I would like everyone to remain seated as I walk down the aisle.

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  • J
    Savvy November 2017
    Josie ·
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    We did the same thing and asked our officiant to announce it before the ceremony began. We had a few still pull their phones out, but seeing the pictures they captured, like my in-laws reaction to me walking down the aisle, were precious.

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