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Ashley
Beginner November 2019

Tipping the caterer

Ashley , on November 24, 2019 at 5:28 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 4
I’m confused on how to tip the caterer because I’ve seen so many different answers. Some say tip on the total bill. Some say tip on the food bill. Others say tip per person.


My caterer includes the linens and glassware in their cost. They don’t bill us separately for appetizers because we’re allowed to pick 4 options to have passed plus a station. They don’t bill for coffee, bar mixers, or cake separately either because it’s also included in the per person cost. I don’t pay anything additional, it’s literally the per person cost based on the meal choice plus sales tax. That’s it. They do not include gratuity in the contract. They’re supplying 7 servers, 3 chefs, and 2 bartenders. Plus they will have their coordinator there.
So I don’t know what to do about it. If I should tip per person, what is an appropriate amount to give? Also, I’m not a fan of bartenders having a tip jar out at weddings. I know it happens frequently but I was planning on tipping them anyway. I just don’t know what to give.

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Latest activity by Clíodhna, on November 26, 2019 at 7:13 AM
  • Amber
    Super September 2020
    Amber ·
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    Tip was included in your contract? 🤷 about catering I've yet got to that in my wedding planning.
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  • Ashley
    Beginner November 2019
    Ashley ·
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    Tipping was not included in my contract. It actually specifically states under the amount of people that it doesn’t include gratuity.
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  • N
    Dedicated July 2020
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    Tipping isn’t in my contract either and I’m pretty annoyed (my fault) but there’s a 5% service charge which I incorrectly assumed was for gratuity but the hotel is keeping. I’m going to shell out tips for the people there but will vary it depending on who. I think $50 for bartenders who are going to be there for the full 4 hours of the reception is sufficient. I don’t know what to do about the servers or chefs. I’m thinking $25-50 depending on how long they’ll have to be there?


    I will say I once worked at a country club doing weddings as a server and we didn’t really receive tips, so maybe it depends on the venue?
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Hey there, Ashley!


    Tipping in quite confusing, especially when you’ve got other extras in on the bill! You’re definitely not the first person to wonder how to approach this Smiley smile


    According to this WeddingWire article (Exactly How Much To Tip Wedding Vendors: A Complete List) you would tip a percent of the food bill. The article also details how to tip bartenders!


    I hope this clears up any confusion.

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