When does someone typically have their bachelorette party and bridal shower? My MOH is planning both for me, which I'm extremely excited and grateful for! But I'm just wondering how the timeline is "supposed" to fall. She's planning on having the bachelorette party two weeks before my actual wedding date, which is fine with me because that way we can have a whole weekend together. & The bridal shower is still undecided, but she is planning on having it before the bachelorette party. When did you have/or are going to have your bachelorette party & bridal shower?