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John Smith
Expert February 2015

Throwing around the idea of having more than one wedding

John Smith, on April 27, 2020 at 11:50 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5

Here's some background: We're scheduled to get married in the states on July 4th. His family is all local to the area. My family lives in the UK, and my parents are living in Uganda.


Because of Covid, we're not sure if we'll be able to get married in July. However, if we are able to get married as scheduled (which we will only do if my parents are able to be there) , there's a large chance that my relatives from the UK won't come (specifically my grandparents) because of health concerns. Because of that, we've been throwing around the idea of having another wedding reception/celebration of some sort in Belfast at the end of August (we'll be in N. Ireland anyway for my grandparents' wedding anniversary celebration). That way they can be a part of the wedding celebration even if they can't be at the main wedding.


If we do this, should we do another ceremony as well? (minus the vows), or should we just do a reception-style dinner with dancing? Do we do a first dance and cake cutting, etc. as well? What are your thoughts?


Thanks!

5 Comments

Latest activity by Lynnie, on April 29, 2020 at 10:19 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I would just do a reception. I personally wouldn't want to renew my vows so soon after my wedding.

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  • Autumn
    Devoted July 2020
    Autumn ·
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    I would only want to do one, but keep in mind there are many cultures where doing multiple weddings in multiple locations to facilitate large number of family members who are all in different places is the norm. If you want to reenact the whole thing it's up to you! It's personally not something I would want to do but people definitely do it

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  • Dierdra
    Super August 2021
    Dierdra ·
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    We are having a ceremony now and then having the big wedding with a smaller ceremony when we reschedule.

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  • H
    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Can you maybe have the US ceremony available for streaming, like they can join in through Zoom or something? That way they don't miss the ceremony and you can then have a celebration when you're in North Ireland.
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    It's totally your call! If you want to incorporate some ceremony elements, you could think about doing a symbolic unity ceremony! A unity candle, wine mixing, or handfasting? I definitely think there's a way to do a quick service that acknowledges that you've already made your vows to each other, but want to share your love and declare it openly with your family members as witnesses! Smiley heart

    This article highlights more ideas as well: 7 Wedding Unity Ceremony Ideas

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