Three day’s left!!!!

My big day was this past Sunday, congratulations! I will say make a list of everything...i forgot my garter and cake topper. Smh The day won’t be perfect but it’ll be worth it, congrats!!!

Relax! You last minute todo list isn’t that important. Focus on only what’s important to get done, or a must do. Anything else doesn’t matter.
My marriage license got forgotten (twice) because we took a different car than planned. That’s the most important item for the day! So, my advice is make sure that gets put somewhere that won’t be forgotten. And remember to breathe and relax these next couple of days. Oh and delicate/ask for help with any DIY you might be finishing up. My husband didn’t help with much during planning but that Thursday before he jumped in and helped out a lot, which was a relief for me.

Yay that's so exciting.

Sleep as much as you possibly can! I cannot emphasize that enough lol.

Also what I found was that my wedding weekend didn't go by "fast" like people said but... the reason it kind of felt like that was just because there simply is not enough time to do everything you're going to want to do. My best advice is to have as much of a plan as possible. Know where you're going to be, with who, and when. Honestly we tried to be more relaxed and just see where things went, and then after our rehearsal dinner found out that: my extended family was going back to my grandparents' house, my immediate family and my husband's family were going back to my mom's house, and our friends were going back to the hotel. Seriously deciding what to do in that moment was one of the most stressful parts of the weekend we ended up going to my mom's house first, then to my grandparents', and then back to the hotel. But honestly the entire thing felt rushed, and I felt like we spent way too much time in the car bouncing around from place to place. We should've set a plan to begin with of who to meet when, and where.

Another thing, trust your gut on things. For example, I had always wanted to sleep at home the night before the wedding. Then a few days before I decided to sleep at the hotel because it seemed more practical and I thought it was what I *should* do. I should've gone with my gut and stayed at home. I slept horribly at the hotel and I think I would've gotten a MUCH better night of sleep if I had trusted myself and slept at home!