Thoughts on the engagement ideas and dealing with stress of planning

I'm wondering how do you guys deal with the stress of planning and dealing with work life and everything going on with covid 19 I been under stress and about when the engagement can be official with friends and family but I'm finding my self with no time to think outside of work I know stressing isn't going to help and add to my planning picking music food and a venue seems to be a top priority my venue choice is very beautiful but coming down to music and announcing the engagement and a get together has been hard when not sure to start I can use words of encouragement and ideas kinda hard planning