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Chelsea
Dedicated December 2020

Thoughts on Stock the Bar parties?

Chelsea, on January 26, 2020 at 4:28 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

I just recently heard about stock the bar parties. I friend of mine mentioned they went to one where, instead of a traditional bridal or wedding shower, they did a co-ed party where they received alcohol or alcohol related gifts. She said it was for their wedding reception bar. Initially I was like,...
I just recently heard about stock the bar parties. I friend of mine mentioned they went to one where, instead of a traditional bridal or wedding shower, they did a co-ed party where they received alcohol or alcohol related gifts. She said it was for their wedding reception bar. Initially I was like, what a cool idea instead of your standard shower gift. Our bar at our venue doesn't supply the alcohol so I was thinking that it would be a big help.



But, then I got to reading and thinking...Is this in poor taste or tacky to do? We were originally planning to purchase our alcohol, but thought the added help would be nice. But its it wrong to have guests basically buy their own alcohol for the reception?! I am now unsure about the idea even with my family/friends/ guests being pretty laid back people. I am reading that the "stock the bar" is more for your personal bar (which is still a really cool idea in my opinion). Hmmm..
Has anyone thought of or done a stock the bar themed party? How did you go about it? Or should I just trash the idea? LOL
Thanks!!!
*Kindness is appriciated as this is an honest well intentioned question. 😉

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  • Chelsea
    Dedicated December 2020
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    Oh that is a great idea! Thanks!!
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  • Chelsea
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    That makes sense. Thank you!!!
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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
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    Of course!! Smiley smile

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  • Kaylen
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    I think it’s a good idea for a budget wedding/ close wedding! I’m all for helping people out with their weddings. My only question is though- if you attend a stock the bar party and bring some bottles- do you need to bring a separate wedding gift as well? The one I’m attending is in place of a bridal shower. Doubles as a wedding coed shower.
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