...you end up in a Miss Manners column! Gotta admit, I never heard of this before.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/miss-manners-heres-another-wrinkle-on-wedding-extortion-for-cash/2017/02/03/1554f89a-df90-11e6-918c-99ede3c8cafa_story.html?utm_term=.490fe1cf53ed


