Themes

My theme was "wedding." You don't really need to have a theme if you don't want to. Sometimes I would answer by describing the color palette.

I didn’t have a theme. I had wedding colors though and they were blush pink and mint

Vintage! Are colors are white, greys & pops of Tiffany Blue.

Elegance with a touch of disney

I swore we wouldn't have a theme, but DH knew better, because he knew us.

It ended up being themed around our favorite baseball team, the Phillies, with accents of theatre, our other shared passion.

IF you want a theme, I always suggest choosing something you both love to pieces. That way, the wedding ends up being very uniquely about the two of you.

There is no need for a theme. We had a country style inn, and everything we brought in was suited to an elegant , semi-formal dinner and dancing reception. No set colors. The inn featured beautiful midtone woodwork , otherwise painted cream with gilt trim, brass fixtures. Individual areas . Colored lampshades and carpets and draperies set the colors room to room. So we went with their style, and glass and cut glass, and white light end, and flowering plants. Aside from those , and some walls where they had uplighting, no decorations at all. Very light and festive. Nothing more.

Ughh I hate that question. It's not a prom I don't need a theme smdh. (Don't get me wrong, I love themed weddings, bit it's not important for every wedding to have a theme.) I just tell people I'm having a fall, mountain wedding and my colors are forest green, blush, and gold.

I hated that question.


Now that we're getting married in Halloween, it's a lot less annoying.

My wedding didn't really have a theme. I think themes are unnecessary and often appear childish.

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Thanks! I've done that a couple of times.

I came up with my theme through Pinterest putting together things I love and building a portfolio. My theme is Enchanted Garden! Also thought about my personality, the month I was doing it in, and the colors I lived together as palettes!

Our theme is wedding. It’s a wedding, you don’t need a theme.

People asked you because they are interested, curious, or excited for your wedding.


I would be happy if people ask anything about my wedding, because to me it means they care.
~Love~

Funny these questions we get asked. I kept having people ask what my colors were and I'm like... uhhh well I'm wearing white....

I'm calling my wedding "midsummer nights dream" because it's in a woodsy town, outdoors, and i'm having twinkly lights everywhere. But honestly, I kind of just use that for my own guidance, I prefer not to tell people. Once you tell people what kind of wedding you're having they put it in a little box in their head and when it inevitably doesn't look like what they imagined there's disappointment. (for some reason)

I prefer to keep expectations low/vague and just let people be impressed when they get there.

Beach theme. I love the beach, I love the summer time, I love the warm and I live very much inland with no beach lol!! However, my FH took me to Santa Monica and we had the most amazing beach day ever! That night he proposed to me at sunset on the beach. So beach is my theme.

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That is so cute!

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Haha that's a good idea!

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Yeah I know, I like that they care, I just felt like I was missing something but now I get it.

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That is so true!

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Yeah that sound like a good way to do it!