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Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart
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The Night before your big day

Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart, on July 10, 2020 at 5:43 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 1 52
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Are any of you lovely ladies spending the night before your big day without your significant other or with your significant other? If your already married what did you do? would you do it different?

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Latest activity by Jasmine, on July 17, 2020 at 7:52 PM
  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I spent the night with my husband before our wedding. and i don't think i would do it differently again

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  • Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart
    Devoted August 2024
    Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart ·
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    Awww so special, I can't decide what I want to do. My fiance wants to spend the night away from each other and not see me until I'm walking down the aisle he thinks it'll make the moment even more special .

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    We spent the night together the night before. I’m really glad we did as I was feeling really stressed out with things and he helped calm me.
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  • Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart
    Devoted August 2024
    Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart ·
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    I like that, my FH is my safe place and I feel he'll take all the stress and anxiety away from me.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    We stayed together in our own house and neither of us would change a thing.
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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    We lived together for almost 3 years before the wedding. We spent the night before apart and it was honestly exciting. We didn’t see each other til the ceremony and we loved the anticipation. It was so fun hanging out with our friends that day and then our wedding night felt so special.
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  • Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart
    Devoted August 2024
    Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart ·
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    Really OMG! My FH wants to do that I'm just nervous but my wedding party said they would all stay the night with me to help ease my mind from stressing. See we've lived together for 8 years when we get married it will be 10 years. I'm going to do it, I guess I'm just worried about stressing the night before and I really shouldn't.

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  • Mrs. S
    Super November 2019
    Mrs. S ·
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    It was honestly so relaxing, no regrets.
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  • Kimberly
    Super March 2021
    Kimberly ·
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    We are staying together the night before. We live together and are having a DW in Gatlinburg about 4 hours from home so we have a hotel room for the weekend. We will spend the night together, have breakfast together then separate until we see each other walking down the aisle.
    I don’t sleep well without him so not staying together the night before wasn’t really even a thought we had.
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  • A
    Super October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    We’re going home after the rehearsal dinner so we can sleep in our own bed. Neither of us would sleep well in a hotel or somewhere else before something so important.
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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
    Jai ·
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    We spent the night together before and I would do it all over again
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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    We will be spending the night together at the vacation rental we got for us and the WP. It doesn’t make sense for us to spend it apart since we already live together and there’s no extra room in the house so one of is would be on a sofa bed.
    We’re getting married at sunrise, so it’ll be an early night and I’m hoping after dinner we can escape for a bit of quiet. I’m sure I’ll be super stressed with a million things running through my mind knowing we have little time in the morning to fix any issues that arise!
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  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    My husband shared a hotel room with the best man and one of their other friends. I shared a hotel room with my grandparents. After rehearsal, we went back to the hotel and went our separate ways until our first look.
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  • Kimberly
    Expert October 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    We spent it apart. Mainly bc we have dogs. We had our rehearsal and our dinner tbe night before, my sister stayed in the hotel with me and he went home to our pups. I had originally planned on staying home as well, but with the getting ready photos I had to be at the hotel the day before.
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  • Leonardia
    Dedicated June 2021
    Leonardia ·
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    I'm staying at a bed and breakfast with my mom and aunts the night before and he will be at our place with the guys. I'm excited to have that night to hang with my friends and it made sense, because of getting hair and makeup done, for me to stay closer to the venue. Plus we both think it'll be nice to have that build up before we do our first look. Do what makes you happy!
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  • Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart
    Devoted August 2024
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    Yeah I believe I'm going to be staying with my bridesmaids at the hotel the night before and he'll be staying with the guys. Thats the plan anyways, I'm just nervous thinking about it.

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  • Sinaya
    Devoted August 2022
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    We will not spend the night together the day before. After the rehearsal dinner he will be with the guys and I will be with my ladies. We want the anticipation leading up to the that walk down the aisle. We're not doing a first look either which is really popular these days.

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  • Soon To Be Mrs. Stewart
    Devoted August 2024
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    Yeah that's what we'er going to do. We aren't doing a first look either. I'm just doing a first look with my dad.

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  • Michelle
    Devoted November 2021
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    Our original plan was for him to stay at a hotel with the best man and I would be at home. However, we moved the wedding up and changed to a destination wedding (at least for me, he lives in that area) so we were now at a hotel. We hadn't seen each other in 3 months so it made sense for us to stay together at the hotel. I ended up loving being with him the night before the wedding in anticipation of our big day and he helped keep me calm in the morning even when I kicked him out of the room so he wouldn't see me get ready.

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  • Sinaya
    Devoted August 2022
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    Nice! I plan to do that with my dad as well and also with my bridesmaids. Only my mom and MOH were with me to pick out the dress, and they will be the only two helping me get dressed.

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