The forgotten Bachelorette Party?

Ouch it sounds like they might not planned it or its a surprise. My bridesmaid didn't plan me a bachelorette. Another friend stepped in and we did a joint party and went to Dave andbusters. Neither the bridesmaid or groomsman came (they are a couple). Just make your feelings known so you don't go through what I did

Yeah sounds like a surprise unless you know of some disaster or issue moh is dealing with?

Hmm ya that is strange. I would politely ask her about it and see what she says.

Does seem a bit weird... I guess I'd cross my fingers for a surprise??

I would ask her. At this point you need to know. My bachelorette was the week before the wedding. Even though I knew the date it was still stressful with it being that close to the wedding. You need to know so you can plan around it for all the last minute stuff you'll be doing.

Just make a little comment like "I can't wait to see how my Bach party turns out, ive been so excited since that sneak peak you gave me!!! And see how she responds. if she is dealing with something that is getting in the way then this will hopefully get her to open up. My mom died the week of my bffs Bach party and I luckily had everything planned already but it was a long time cing and I had been dealing with it for months leading up to her events. She was so amazing and understanding tho and made time to be there for me throughout my ordeal. I still attended/hosted the Bach party and we all had a great time. Hopefully ur moh isn't going through anything like that and is planning a surprise. incase she is tho she might not want to burden you and that is y she hasn't bought it up. I hope it all works out tho either way

She is not going through anything that I am aware. She is posting pics on facebook having fun times with friends lately, so I know nothing bad has happened... :-/

Ask her. seriously. you are running out of time and if she has nothing planned, i would quickly plan a girls night so that at least i had something

I wouldn't sweat it-- if she dropped the ball and failed to plan something when you get back. I did my bachelorette party afterwards, cause life was just insanely busy before-- was kind of nice to have some 'partying' left to look forward to after the wedding was over.

I'de ask. Not really worth worrying about.

It's a surprise trust me I did this to my bff she was asking around and know one told her the day of the bridal shower she thought it was just a barbeque nope tears streamed down just so you know it was exactly 2weeks til the day

Just spoke to my MOH today and as it turns out, there are no surprises planned. She mention "oh, I feel bad but I haven't had time to plan the party, sorry". Since my wedding is now a week away, my Bridesmaid (aka my cousin) found out and is stepping in. She is going to take me out when she gets into town 2 days before my wedding and is taking me out (without the MOH) since the MOH can not make it into the town of the wedding until the day of the wedding. Feeling kind of hurt since my MOH said she was going to plan it and even showed me stuff several months ago that she had bought for it.

My bridesmaid did the same thing to me. She said she was going to plan it so I let my sister and moh know so it was one less thing to do. My bridesmaid said she was looking stuff up, asked for dates and I thought we were all set. A week before I ask about it and she says oh I'm busy that night I didn't know we were doing anything! I was so upset! And this was 3 days before my wedding! My husband, then fiancée stepped in and we went and hung out at a friends house but it wasn't the same. He tried and I love him for it, but was so hurt that she either forgot or ignored it and went to hang out with our friend who's getting married in October and do stuff for her wedding. So you're not alone!