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Chassidy
Beginner June 2016

"The Bride is coming! The Bride is coming!" title besides bell ringer?

Chassidy, on February 18, 2016 at 12:16 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 42

My little sister (9 years old) will be coming down the aisle right before me, ringing our great grandmothers bell (deceased) saying "the bride is coming, the bride is coming!" I am TOTALLY lost on her title! PLEASE HELP!

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  • S&J
    Master August 2017
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    Bell Girl?

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  • Stephie
    VIP May 2016
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    Why does she need a title and why does she need to announce you are coming? I mean, the bell, I guess, since it has sentimental value, but can't everyone tell the bride is coming? Does it really need to be announced? It is a wedding after all.

    Eta - My son is 9 years old and he would look at me all kinds of stupid if I told him he was going to announce me. I might just tell him that for shits and giggles to see his reaction. It'll be a good laugh.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    Page or herald

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  • Claudia
    Dedicated July 2016
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    The Page?

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  • Chassidy
    Beginner June 2016
    Chassidy ·
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    My wedding is vintage/antique based on our deceased grandmother. She use to ring this bell to call us when she needed anything. Every touch in my wedding has a sentimental and meaningful

    value.

    Stephie, My 9 year old sister is VERY excited to come down the aisle right before me and have the honor of announcing when i'm coming.

    I've come a across Bride crier and town crier (which sounds cruel) I've never heard of Page!

    Thanks ladies. Keep them coming!!!

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  • S&J
    Master August 2017
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    I love the idea, Chassidy. Especially because there is a story behind it. Very sweet. I have no more ideas though on names, lol.

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  • Chassidy
    Beginner June 2016
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    Thank you S&J!

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  • JadedRaven
    VIP September 2016
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    Town Crier or Page is what I came in here to suggest also.

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  • FFW
    Master August 2016
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    I was the bell ringer in my aunties wedding back in 1997. Not sure what they are called though in the program or website.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP December 2016
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    Maybe its just bc i grew up in Boston learning about the Revolutionary war, but my first thought when I saw this was "The British are coming! The British are coming!" So im with Richard on Paul Brideivere....

    Ive always thought the "here comes the bride" signs were cute, and i love that you are using the bell that is important to you, i just cant get past the announcement thing....

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    Just Said Yes October 2016
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    I am planning the same thing for my wedding - I told my son he would say "Please rise, here comes the bride". He is going to walk down the aisle with the flower girl just in case she decides not to cooperate. lol Many blessings and I love the sentiment.

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  • FinallyCastro
    Expert February 2017
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    I just wanted to to say this is a great idea and a personal touch to your wedding, no matter what anyone's rude remarks say. I don't have a clever name but wanted to give you my support its hard to find around here.

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  • Emmy
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    I vote Paul Bridevere.


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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
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    That's alittle much to center it around your deceased grandmother. Sorry, that would creep me out a little.

    Maybe try to find another way to honor her that wouldn't freak guests out.

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  • Kayla
    Dedicated September 2018
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    My FH actually did that exact thing when he was little when his mom and dad got married. They just called him a bell ringer i think? I mean idk if that sounds harsh to people or not (im sure some could be offended) but it really was the cutest thing ever. He did it right before his mom walked down after his older brother (the ring bearer) came down! Plus, OP, i love the sentiment behind yours so i think go for it!

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    Devoted July 2016
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    I second Ashley's response. This is a great idea and a nice remembrance of your grandmother.

    Herald is a great suggestion and the definition actually fits the role: someone who makes grand proclamations or oversees a ceremony. A page just runs errands. Soooo, depending on your relationship with your sister... I suppose that will decide her title!

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  • Cassandra7
    Super August 2006
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    Everyone knows when the bride is coming; the music changes to "Here comes the bride." Have the bell ringing if you feel you must, but please don't make a child announce the obvious fact that you're about to approach. It's overkill to the point of narcissism.

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  • JoRocka
    Master September 2016
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    Sorry not sorry. My reaction.... Is weird. It's nice to tribute, but don't get carried away. There is a point where it's weird. I don't now why she needs a title and why she needs to be the crier. We all know you're coming. Have her ring the bell and be done with it.

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  • Formal Pajamas
    Master November 2023
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    I'm with @JoRocka here...

    If I may suggest, have her come down the aisle (with or without music), stand at the end and give a short ring of the bell. This can cue your bridal music and entrance. I think it would be a cute nod to your great grandmother without, well, shouting it aloud.

    ETA: hidden double post

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  • Future Mrs. Webb!
    Master October 2017
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    I agree that the bell could be a cue for your entrance music. It might be a little awkward for your guests otherwise. I do love the idea though, especially how you're honoring your grandmother's memory!

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