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Thank you notes- same card for multiple people?

Caitlin, on June 21, 2018 at 10:37 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 5
Hi WW, I am writing thank you cards for my recent bridal shower and I had a quick question. I received a joint gift from 3 women I interned with this past summer. They all work in the same office and are the only employees. Would it be appropriate to send a single thank you card to their workplace addressed to all of them, or is it more polite to send individual thank yous to their homes? I don't want to be rude but since they all chipped in for the gift and work together I wasn't sure what the ettiquette was. Thanks!


Latest activity by Happy Hedgie, on June 21, 2018 at 11:57 AM
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    Super August 2018
    FutureMrsO ·
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    Individual thank you cards to each of their homes would be appropriate.

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  • Selia
    Super October 2024
    Selia ·
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    Hey Caitlin! Thanks for trusting the WW community to answer your question, we are always happy to help! Smiley love

    It's definitely more appropriate to write individual thank-you notes to each of the women who chipped in for the gift. People understand that thank-you-notes are written in bulk, so they're always going to be a little "generic," that's why any type of personalized touch is suggested! Shows a little extra appreciation for their thoughtfulness Smiley smile

    If you need any help with how to cut down the time it takes to write all the notes, here's a great article with some shortcuts on how to do so!!

    5 Shortcuts for Writing Thank-You Notes

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  • Caitlin
    Savvy August 2018
    Caitlin ·
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    Thank you for the advice! I will be sending individual cards 😊
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  • Allie
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    Allie ·
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    You could do that! I think individual cards would be sweet though!

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  • Happy Hedgie
    VIP September 2018
    Happy Hedgie ·
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    I assume individual invitations for the shower were mailed to each women (presumably at home)? If so, then you should send each a thank you card in the same manner. If only one invite was sent to the office then you can send one thank you card.

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