Thank You Notes for people who didn't come to the wedding, but gifted

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Yikes, that's a tough one - I think I'd probably not mention that Aunt X wasn't there and Uncle Y was. Maybe something to the effect of, "We hope to see you all soon at xx upcoming event," or "you'll have to come for dinner in the near future" or something positive.

I think the thank you note in general is really thoughtful! I don't think that will make them feel bad. If I was reading that, I would feel appreciated!

Include something cute, sweet, and personal.

I had this for my shower. What I did was wrote:

"We are so sorry you couldn't make it to the shower! We adored the gift you sent. Thank you so much for thinking of us, and we hope to catch up sometime soon!"

If they don't attend, i don't like

I need help in this area too!!!!

View Quoted Comment I'm getting married in 19 days. Due to COVID, a few of our guests have chosen not to attend. I was worried about how to address their thank you notes. I just got a nice card, a hefty check, and a declined RSVP. I hope you don't mind, but I may use your post as a blue print to help guide my thank you note to my family.

I would tell them what you plan to do with gifted item: I am looking forward to using the gravy boat for our first Thanksgiving as a married couple. Will think of you every time I use my crockpot. Thank them for sending love and special wishes and because it meant the world to have them send you something so special. Look forward to hosting them for future get togethers.

Following! I think saying you missed them at the wedding is ok, I’ve heard people say things like that and “I know you we’re celebrating with us in spirit.” 😊

View Quoted Comment People give wedding gifts even if not invited because the wish for them to have a long and happy marriage, and also want to be a little part of making a home for your family. So mention those , that your home now reflects the love of family and friends with many new gifts. Mention theirs, and something about it ( is it for entertaining, family holiday meals, adding the warmth of new blanket).