FH's boss told him and I months ago that she planned to get us a serving set (multiple bowl, platters, and utensils) and because she was unable to attend the bridal shower, she went ahead and sent a piece of the set home with FH and said she was bringing the rest to the wedding.
My question is do I go ahead and send her a thank you card now or wait till after the wedding when we receive the other pieces or both?
I know part of why you send right away is so that they know you received it but she already know we did since she gave it to him in person. Also I am worried I won't be able to come up with two totally different thank you notes for her.
Oh and also I have 4 aunts that gifted together a few items but did not attend the shower. Should I write them one thank you note together or 4 separate notes. (They all live very close together and are together all of the time if that helps)