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Thank you cards to everyone?

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MJ, on May 7, 2017 at 4:57 PM

Who did you send thank you cards to? I've been reading online that most send it to only those that gave a gift. Is that correct? We had a lot of people that didn't give us a gift or even a card for a wedding. Wondering if I should send them a thank you card for attending.

Who did you send thank you cards to? I've been reading online that most send it to only those that gave a gift. Is that correct?

We had a lot of people that didn't give us a gift or even a card for a wedding. Wondering if I should send them a thank you card for attending.

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Master October 2022
Jana · on May 9, 2020 at 12:29 AM
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Thank you cards are sent to everyone.
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Just Said Yes August 2023
Amy · on July 15, 2022 at 7:26 PM
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If anyone is discovering this thread in 2022, I just want to say this advice is so so so so wrong!! I cannot believe people are giving this advice!! It is and has always been proper etiquette to send thank you notes to wedding attendees (gift or not!). No sane person would think that receiving a thank you note for attending your wedding is a subtle jab for not also giving you a gift--that's insane!! And I am actually cringing at the irony of the ppl in this thread thinking sending a note to non-gifters will be perceived as rude, not sending them a note, and consequently coming off as very rude. It is actually SUPER tacky to not thank someone in writing just because they didn't get you a gift--like only people who spent money on you (as if most people didn't spend money just to COME to the wedding anyway!) get upgraded to the special written thank-you package. Nope. SEND A NOTE TO EVERYONE
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