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Master July 2014

Temporary GIRLFRIENDS/BOYFRIENDS NOT INVITED.......

Soon2beMrsLittle, on November 29, 2013 at 11:09 AM

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Ok so I need to know if this is rude or not? My guest list has reached the max..... so I told the FH maybe we should go back through the list of invitees and take off their +1 if they are not in a COMMITTED relationship, engaged or married. ex. he has a friend that has different girlfriends every...

Ok so I need to know if this is rude or not? My guest list has reached the max..... so I told the FH maybe we should go back through the list of invitees and take off their +1 if they are not in a COMMITTED relationship, engaged or married. ex. he has a friend that has different girlfriends every month!! what would you do????

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  • Lori
    Master June 2015
    Lori ·
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    I think you're 100% right not to give people plus 1's if you don't want. The problem cones when you try to define who is in a serious relationship. Living together doesn't always work--what about people who don't believe in living together before marriage, or people in long distance relationships? And drawing a time limit line won't always work either. As you can see from this post, there are always exceptions.

    That's why we decided to just give everyone a plus 1, but I don't think you have to. You know your guests the best and know who is in a relationship and who isn't.

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  • Kate
    Master December 2013
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    I'm with Stephanie. It's not up to you to judge someone else's relationship. FH and I were dating for about six months before we were engaged and we were obviously serious much sooner than that. So by some of these rules we wouldn't be allowed to come to your wedding together because you are judging our relationship by some arbitrary standard that doesn't apply.

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  • StephGoods
    Super July 2014
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    I agree with @Shannon Giraffes, I'm going on a case by case basis. Plus, if someone is close enough to me to get an invite then they should be close enough to me for me to know if they are in a serious relationship or not.

    The exception is if the guest doesnt know anyone else at the wedding.

    Luckily I only have 1 guest that doesnt know anyone else there.

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